Happy Birthday to me. Glass of wine on my own.
Another year older, and none the more wiser!
Still thinking about being a junkie, still trying not to be one …
We lost a really amazing black belt last night to breast cancer. Throughout my martial arts journey she has always put me through my paces from all aspects.
I have some fond memories of her, I first met her when I started a weapons art and then jujitsu. The gi I wear, which I haven’t worn in a while was given to me by her and I am incredibly thankful that she gifted it to me.
The end of 2011 when I was going through my first Kwon bop do grading I accidentally tripped her over! We had finished sparring and the master chief instructor told us to get down and get read for push-ups! So I did as I was told, had no idea she was walking backwards and she obviously hadn’t seen my legs on the ground and she hit the deck!
My heart sank, my grading could not have been going worse, I’d already gotten my rank wrong and then tripped her over. Good stuff. She looked over, I honestly thought she was going to murder me! Hilarious now, but at the time I quickly bowed and then went back to business!
She’s always been very stern, strong and disciplined. She always demanded discipline and respect from lower ranks and that’s why I always loved her.
It’s moments like those that make the journey worthwhile, it’s sad to have to say goodbye to an incredible black belt, I’ll miss her a lot!
The Master Instructor said to me a while ago, “martial arts never leaves you, for whatever reason you always leave martial arts.” She wasn’t wrong, she rarely is.
Anonymous asked: Public/ outdoor sex yes or no ?
As long as its not in my city!
Anonymous asked: Car sex yes or no ?
No way, last time that happened I was 17 it was early morning and next thing I knew there was this concerned father shouting at the two of us saying, “Take this somewhere else I have children!”
Hilarious now but at the time I was mortified! That was a very long time ago and I’m way too old to be getting snapped in the backseat of the car by a pedestrian!
Who has time these days for uncomfortable, struggling to move, awkward, teenage angsty car sex!
Quality over quantity!
Just trying not to be an junkie today or think about being a junkie today …
Anonymous asked: How have/can you tell if a guy wants to get intimate with you?.
You can always tell, whether its someone staring at you or an introduction that’s a second longer than it should be - regardless you always know.
Anonymous asked: Are you into "dirty talk"?. I have learnt from experience that some women are not
Um, not necessarily though I’m not adverse to the idea either.
It really depends on the person and how much control I’m willing to hand over. And for some people I will literally hand it all over and go with it, that is rare though …
Anonymous asked: cool blog.
Aww thanks, appreciate it.
Model poses and the finished paintings of Gil Elvgren
This is awesome.
Absolutely love this!
(via raindrop150)
Seriously guys you don’t need to have be abused to be into BDSM …
A friend asked if I had been abused as a child, for the record I was never abused! I had an amazing childhood.
And BDSM isn’t just restricted to the bedroom, I am always incredibly excited when getting tattooed, I absolutely love it! (Unless its my cousin tattooing me!)
Getting a good tattoo is part knowing what you want, finding a good artist who knows what they’re doing, having a good connection with the artist and then finally completely trusting that person with executing your joint vision!
It’s little things like being tattooed that I find very enjoyable, you’re consenting for that person to put you through the necessary pain to end up with something that’s amazing!
With practice and consistency you get better at sitting still, you can sit for longer periods of time and become more disciplined.
I’m into vanilla loving too!
My deepest sympathies go out to Western Force player Chris Eaton after losing his wife Hannah in a tragic car accident.
Kia Kaha te Aroha Nui.
